Sunday, January 24, 2010

Quit Smoking Gun How Do I Get My Husbands Parents To Quit Smoking In My House I Have A 3 Month Old?

How do i get my husbands parents to quit smoking in my house i have a 3 month old? - quit smoking gun

his parents live with us, because his father is ill and can not work. Disabilities do not go to a son at the age of 10 years (or talk drowned) when he was 2 into a ditch, because they do not see. also have a 2 years and 14 years. Say 14 years, not for people to hear how he is 21 years. his father, he has a gun in his room, they can not control, and he did not hear .. We do is by using food in the house and clean .. So neither rented not help pay the bills .. No cables, lighting, electricity, gas. for us to do all this for themselves and personalized just outside the ... I need help, want to leave her again. NEW YEAR night with me and her mother spoke of her son 14 years (I add, not before asking his family to see if they can get their application, if one) as I said, I respect and I take care of them angry and said he did not know how he (she does, in fact I am) just a roof over my head, I said, food is brought into this house to cook and clean my house is more than IUrs ... I never said I called again some time ... It was his way to pay for living here. Food, cooking and cleaning and its reality, only after their children, I stay in my room. I want to help GO!

22 comments:

juliepas... said...

Does your husband, instead of saying something to them. (You have every right) appear to be better accepted if it comes from him.
Tell them it's their home, and it was under her roof, must respect their desire not to smoke around your child .... who is so ignorant that someone do the same.
Establishment of standards:
No smoking in the house
No company, unless a request first.
No weapons at home, (especially the 14-year-old child even if you go into your room and remove yourself!)
This is their home and out of courtesy, spouses and parents to enable them to stay but they respect the rules and find another place to live.

sexyass said...

Wouldnt be where I am at home if they do! Can you tell your husband to talk to them? With regard to tobacco down to the foot is not good for your baby to 14 years. I have a 11 years old son and I .. anyone smoke around him Who smoke at the back door or not at all ..

Bill J said...

Damn in-laws are piece of shit. Her husband must be a man and deal with it. I think if I were you, it causes a lot of tension in the relationship and could ultimately lead to serious problems.

Pinky said...

It must be hard for you.

Talk with your husband and tell him how you feel. but try not to say it, do not know guilt and instant messaging his guilt, but I really think the two should be aware of the problem years

Good luck

Sally S said...

Balless Her husband must be beautiful. Tell him to, to the plate and his family the value of your home. This is not an environment for a baby. Get legal help for them is timeless.

free_ang... said...

Throw them. They are the guests from hell.

Wh00ping CrAne said...

Tell them that you have acquired new cigarettes or cigars. but the color actually some lean M80 filter white and painted no lock on the page. Smoking is guaranteed.

Wh00ping CrAne said...

Tell them that you have acquired new cigarettes or cigars. but the color actually some lean M80 filter white and painted no lock on the page. Smoking is guaranteed.

Wh00ping CrAne said...

Tell them that you have acquired new cigarettes or cigars. but the color actually some lean M80 filter white and painted no lock on the page. Smoking is guaranteed.

LADIES MUST KNOW said...

it !!!!!!!!!! Tough Love ... You hate to see if your baby !!!!!!!!

LADIES MUST KNOW said...

it !!!!!!!!!! Tough Love ... You hate to see if your baby !!!!!!!!

Spindrif... said...

Get Them Out, have no right to be there first, and her husband to hunt and find their own place why should I be subjected to their stupidity?

Ben Dover said...

Here's how it ... must not quit. However, smoke or you are moving.

Stan said...

Your husband needs to strengthen the plate.

And I agree with an earlier comment .... Or you and your baby ... Her husband decides that he wants to live with him.

If your husband does not bring to an end, then go. To live with a friend, and you consult a lawyer, and probably put the house on the market.

You can call the police and evicted if they can prove that you are the owner of the house .. or wait until they went one day and changed the locks on the doors and put their things in stock .. . This can be difficult to do?

Best Bet ... was created by the law to her husband! Her husband takes to his parents and 3 children in your home, or get the marriage is over.

Smoking has little to do with it. For a successful marriage, you need these people out, and make sure that your husband does not mean that if the divorce does not erase!

me said...

You can help your parents or your family? Perhaps if they stay with the child for a while. He would miss its financial contribution. It is not worth your health or your child.

It should also laws in 14 years with a pistol. "The result could be very bad! A man from the local police should be able to answer your questions.

a.shaner said...

Belle and whether they have mail coming bands then u go to court to expel them, but if they do then custom list and then face up call and need from the ER to take home and when you say that u will face court to inform them of the weapon that allows him to take the fare and tell the Uruguay Round for you baby ER

PattyAnn said...

Sell your house if he ill? That would be my first clue not to ask them to live with me. You take care of nature, but it's pretty obvious that I do not like.
The issue of smoking is easy. No smoking in my house. Period. When you activate it, remove it and throw it into the toilet. Hold the child in another room until it happens.
Your situation seems to me quite unreal. Your husband needs help to live an apartment when you leave the house.
Curiously, when the parents come to live, everybody says they should leave, but if the children stay home and complain that everyone says that their parents have to take care of you. Two generations should not live together. I do not understand these people are so angry, and raised the man you love and got married.
I'm curious. You live in the house they had?

dwstargz... said...

A kick. Who cares about smoking. For the amount of contributions and the contempt which comprise this volume, I am surprised that you stay there. Give them 30 days time to get his stuff together and leave. Not like you at first, but out of love for his family and the health of your child, they must go.

adan9696 said...

Firstly, what is the status of your husband? I hope the party with you in this situation, and if so, he has to his parents face. He would ask whether you support the family's work, but to see that you have a baby of 3 months, which seems unlikely. In any case, it means nothing at home, in addition to feeding their children, cleaning (GETS probably) the only cause of them, then there is no basis for asserting that its more than your house. His point may be that has your son care should take from her, but her husband was more responsible for you and your child. Besides her husband she needed to a level you must stay the course and has the status of the case. When the house was not under his name, and you and your husband has invested more money in the house, she has no right to argue against you. Let them live, should not as a favor if they will not make any concession to a situation where they have no right, then you should get your husband on your side against your baby's health. Sorry if this walk. The main point of interestNT is only a burden for you without the right to argue against you, to be bold and scream and cry when they can not see, as it seems, at least the mother is trying to control you.

lilredch... said...

What is ur man say. Tell them, or unmarried. If not talk to them or do something or Needa Get Ur lil own land. Let U and the baby needs more.

Yall can not afford another apartment cheap. Oh, I hope ... Cause or live in hell.

Ur man has to take control.

indysimg... said...

That sounds like a very bad situation. I would have done if I kill myself or had gone to live with the family of my husband. For smokers with a baby in the house is not good! You need to put your foot there! Take a small smoking area in the garage or outside and they are not in the house, not the smoking good for the baby. If they do not understand that there is something wrong with them!

iatphoto... said...

Sorry ... But it is time for an ultimatum! One of them, or if you and your baby. At the beginning I would never see you my in-laws move in a long time. Secondly, is your husband to understand their perspective. But there is an ultimatum, if you do not intend to go further with them. Take your husband or you tell them and find his own place, (a course of two weeks) or let you go. If he is willing to let go, then your answer is!

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